[Ray Base]

Good day to all!

I would like to receive advice from you the most experienced. It happend to me many time now, I have been in a situation where I think it has already happend. but I just ignore it thinking that it was nothing, I think it started since i was in college, but now i think it is not just something to be ignored about.

let me explain my experience. Three years ago before my first child was born, i have seen in my dream that i'm in a stairs to a building and i was looking in to a room. in the room there was this bed where a baby is put on a flourecent light. And after that another scene was i was in a counter paying for something and my cousin was there arguing with the cashier, and then i woke up. After nearly a year, I had a son and the room that i was looking was the room of my son in the incubator and the other was when i pay the bill in hospital since i was a little short of money my cousin was there to expalin to the cashier that we will pay the rest of the amount later but the cashier refused and thats when she started to argue.

now i would like to know if can i control this events in my dream. or at least know why/when it is going to happen. i really need to know cause there is this dream that my father is being shot in our home. and i think it was a warning or something like that. and i dont want that to happen. I really need some advise.

thanks in advance.

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now i would like to know if can i control this events in my dream.

I think you have to question and do some self-analysis here: was this just a dream? I've had plenty of very 'real' dreams where people come into my home - one this week actually - and they never do because I know that's never going to happen, not in the way in the scenarios in the dreams because they simply don't happen in real life. In fact, it would be totally impossible for the things in the dreams to happen in real life. Would be a rather unnatural turn of events if they ever did put it that way. Never happen, because they are and were dreams.

I won't comment on the rest.

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I just realized that this thread wold probably be more at home in the dream interpretation section. Maybe someone could move it for you?

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Before you ask me (as I can see you hovering about up there eg reading the forum) - NO, I can't answer this for you. Sorry.

[Ray Base]

Nostredame, on 11 March 2010 - 06:23 PM, said:

I think you have to question and do some self-analysis here: was this just a dream? I've had plenty of very 'real' dreams where people come into my home - one this week actually - and they never do because I know that's never going to happen, not in the way in the scenarios in the dreams because they simply don't happen in real life. In fact, it would be totally impossible for the things in the dreams to happen in real life. Would be a rather unnatural turn of events if they ever did put it that way. Never happen, because they are and were dreams.

I won't comment on the rest.

Good day sir.
But, howcome that i was in the scene as in my dreams. Whenever that happens i suddenly stop for a moment and try to recall whats going to happen next. And in the dream, i was in my self looking at the situation, unlike in my other normal dream that im looking at my self thats in the scene.
kindly explain it to me, thanks.

[Crystal Tarot]

Hi,

I have a very siomple philosophy about dreams... some are just dreams. The first dream could very easily be explained by the thoughts of a would be father, the worries and the insider information that you haqve about your situation, your own fears being played out - not being able to pay.

Sometimes in dreams we dream as us, we look out at things, In other dreams we watch ourselves and can see us doing things and in certain situations. Ask yourself the difference, why.

When you watch yourself can you intevene, intefere, change the things that are happening or are they just more for information? When you are the person in the dream then I feel you can actually change what you dream, your sub-conscious can intervene and change events. Some people use a trigger factor, something in real life, something a bit unusual and not everyday. Lets say a blue tennis ball perhaps? In waking state we visualise this tennis ball and it will be the link to our dream state. When the blue tennis ball appears in our dreams it may trigger a part of us and we will then start lucid dreaming that we can have an effect on.

Moved to Dreams :)

[sisi]

Ray Base, on 11 March 2010 - 05:53 AM, said:

now i would like to know if can i control this events in my dream. or at least know why/when it is going to happen. i really need to know cause there is this dream that my father is being shot in our home. and i think it was a warning or something like that. and i dont want that to happen. I really need some advise.

Hello Ray,

I read your post a couple of days ago but I found it so grave that I was hesitant to offer you any advice.

Then this evening it came to me that I could simply ask the Universe to give you the guidance that will show you the way to address this issue in the best interests for all concerned.

I am sending you clarity and confidence.

[Ray Base]

I really appriciate all of your advices.

I really wish that, that dream will not come true.

Thanks a lot.

[Bob Bob]

It sounds dreadfull, such a dream about your father. And I really want to give you some peace of mind and I will do an attempt here. Yet I can only write from my own experience and with dreams, you are the only person who can work them out, deal with them.

I was on my last day of a lovely holiday abroad when I had this dream;
I was at a friends house who lives in one of a series of flats (house-towers) we were outside and I saw a plane falling down from the sky and the nose of the plane slid over the ground towards me. Then another plane came down, broke in two and crashed into one of the flats. I didn't know where my husband was so I tried to phone him. But I got his voicemail.

Now my friend, you can imagine how I felt waking up and having to take the plane home!
This is where I was in a battle against my own mind. I was thinking that I shouldn't tell anyone about the dream until I was back on the ground safely, just in case I would jinx it or get anyone else worried. I did write down that dream, to add it to my dream diary. It was a 4 hour flight and I managed to ban the dream out of my head for a while when reading a book. I was really confused about what to believe. Can I 'jinx' things? How superstitious am I and how much notice should I give my own superstitions? You know the battle I guess :nerves:

It was a while after that day that I could step back from it all and look at the dream in context with what was going on in my life. And I could clearly see that the planes were a symbol of my little dreamworld come crashing down on me. I'll not go into detail here but it became perfectly clear to me how the dream was reflecting my emotional frame of mind in symbols.

So please..... I would advise you to ban that fear out of your head. It doesn't do a person any good to live with fear, it wrecks your head.
I believe that dreams use shocking images when they want to tell you something, when you need to remember the dream. I've been shot in my dreams a lot and every time it symbolised major changes in my life.